This story is partially about advice and what relationships should look like but it’s also partially about my current relationship. The way I feel about the girl I’m with is the way I hope everyone feels when they fall for someone. She makes my life beautiful and entirely worth it. I have to admit, we do struggle sometimes, but we always find our way. And you know, it’s genuinely okay to struggle. Just as long as it’s not happening 25/8 in the relationship. And if I’m being honest, the struggle can occasionally make it all even more worth it than it already is. As of right now, her and I are stronger than ever, and I’m so thankful for that.

I’m sure many of you have been in a relationship with someone at least once or twice in your life and I’m sure that the things you experienced in those relationships were probably a mix of good and bad. Before truly getting into a relationship with someone, or even asking someone out, you should be sure that you’re ready for what comes with it. Relationships can be so incredibly beautiful, but only if you make them that way. They should always be healthy even though sometimes they aren’t. Some things that should be involved in healthy relationships would be having communication, trust, honesty, happiness, and most importantly love for each other. These 5 characteristics can and will get you a long way.

I encourage anyone in a relationship or thinking about getting into one to make sure that you’re ready. They take a lot of time, energy, and growth. But along with that they are very rewarding and incredible.